Church renewal (read replanting and revitalizing) is a lot like farming. You work hard, wait, work some more and then wait. In the waiting you may begin to wonder if anything is happening, if any impact is being made, if any true spiritual work is taking place.
The normal measures of success and growth (increased attendance, bigger budgets, more programs and buzz) may remain elusive to you—especially during the early days (read first five years) of your replanting work. Even more elusive - the markers you may desire most - conversions and baptisms. It takes time to reignite and mobilize a declined congregation toward missional living. Don't ignore the standard measurements of growth but don't be tied to them alone as the primary indicators of success, especially in the early days of your renewal work. To be clear, I’m not advocating for changing the game “where everyone gets a trophy” and you never keep score. I am suggesting that you begin measuring something many fail to measure--moving your members toward maturity. Maturation is a funny thing—it occurs internally yet displays itself externally. It develops slowly but appears suddenly. Its absence and presence are undeniable. In many churches, especially those long in decline it may seem to be entirely absent in the lives of the majority of members. Often we've expected longevity of church membership and moral living to equate to spiritual maturity, they often don't. Old "Bill" a deacon who's been around for years, served on the search committee and is a Trustee for the church can be as mean as a snake whenever his ideas are contested. He's known to spout un-prayed over and critical opinions at the monthly business meeting, creating shock among the new members, shakes of the head among the old who say; "That's just Old Bill-he gets that way." "Gossipy Sue" a senior adult, whose family founded the church, spins her tales as she rocks the youngest of the congregation in the church nursery. Her "sharing" dispirits and disheartens those assigned to serve with her on a Sunday. Worse, when her comments are reported or shared, division is sewn into the fabric of the church family. When conflicts are dissected to discern their source, a good many can be traced back to "Gossipy Sue." Are these folks, who have been fixtures and staples of the church mature? By their behaviors just mentioned we'd have to say it's not certain. Are they demonstrating the fruit of the Spirit? Are the embodying Christian love? Paul states the goal of his ministry is to present everyone mature in Christ, he then shows us the pattern of ministry he employs to get there.
What if we started asking those in our church this question: “Are you following Jesus more fully and faithfully now than you were last (week, month, year)? Is your life and are you actions/interactions characterized by Christian love, do they demonstrate the fruit of the Spirit? What if we began organizing our efforts and aim at helping our people mature in Christ—and trusting God to give us the strength to do so and leaving the results up to Him. QUESTIONS FOR REFLECTION 1. Are you taking the long or short view as you develop your ministry score card? 2. Is your focus on results or presenting those you are called to shepherd mature in Christ? 3. Are you working in ministry in your own strength, or in the strength God provides?
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Those seeking to catalyze change in a church or organization know that receiving criticism and efforts to sabotage those changes is not only possible, it's probable. Preparing your mind, heart and spirit for that reality is one thing, enduring and leading forward progress in-spite of them is quite another.
Brother Pastor, Church Leader, Staff member - preparing for the battle before the first salvos are exchanged is not only good advice, it is essential. Consider the challenges Nehemiah faced, follow his example, trust God and lead forward. SABOTAGE STRATEGY 1 - PUBLIC AND OPEN CRITICISM Critics gonna criticize, often, perhaps loudly, maybe publicly, definitely to those willing to give an ear to their negative vocalizations. In part criticism is a good sign (as long as your not being mean, foolish or exercising poor leadership.) You can expect people to get angry, mock, question and criticize. RESPONSE: Stay at the work SABOTAGE STRATEGY 2 - PLOTTING CONFLICT It is sad, but it happens. People antagonistic to changes at a church may exercise bylaw loopholes to gather a crowd (who haven't a clue about what's going on at the church by the way) to vote down initiatives, vote out a pastor and cause chaos. You'd think what with the absence of visitors, baptisms and members sharing the gospel they'd have more important work to do - but no, plotting to keep the church dying and declining-that's the important priority. RESPONSE: Pray and set up guards SABOTAGE STRATEGY 3 - ENEMEY INFILTRATION Not everyone who is with you is for the vision God has given. I've been surprised by betrayals, spies, moles and leakers who took information, manipulated it to their own ends. These close insiders mischaracterize vision, leaders motives and look for ways to kill progress and take out leaders. I wish it weren't so, but sometimes it is. RESPONSE: Equip everyone with the truth so that they can defend SABOTAGE STRATEGY 4 - REQUESTING A "MEETING" Let me give you some trusted insight, borne out over a couple of decades of ministry experience. If a recently vocal negative critic wants to "meet" to talk things out, if they aren't leading with repentance, if they have spread gossip and rumors like wildfire, sewn dissension among the congregation and their invitation to convene a conversation isn't absolutely soaked with apologetic humility - don't meet. RESPONSE: Focus on your important work SABOTAGE STRATEGY 5 - THE ANONYMOUS LETTER Our seminary and bible professors told us this would happen, the stories prepared our minds cognitively but nothing prepares our hearts for suffering but actually suffering. Typically we hear about such letters only after others have received them. What do the authors intend? Perhaps it's to blanket the congregation with criticism, it could be to plant seeds which would sprout additional opponents. Such letters are meant to strike a blow to the leader, eliminating their voice, silencing them to address the matters raised in the document. RESPONSE: Speak the truth, pray. SABOTAGE STRATEGY 6 - INTIMIDATION Some critics and their allies attempt to strike a leaders heart with fear. Using hyperbole, exaggeration and over statement they claim things are worse than they actually are, that circumstances are perilous, that the future is dire. Their advice - hide, run, play it safe, back down, stop. RESPONSE: Discern the source, pray. SABOTAGE STRATEGY 7 - SIDE CHANNEL CRITICISM When leaders are undaunted, when all the strategies employed to get them to stop, change course, lose heart or quit a Saboteur in a last ditch effort to have their way may "flood the zone" with a wide spread last ditch attempt to discredit the work, the leader behind the work and build a coalition of like minded critics among the influential, the common public and the entire community. RESPONSE: Disregard Questions for Reflection 1. What sabotage strategies are you dealing with right now? 2. What can you learn from the example of Nehemiah? How can you mirror his response? 3. What help do you need to stay on course - pursuing the vision God has given? Resistance to change: any word, threat or act designed to derail, delay, intimidate or upend forward progress toward the accomplishment of God’s revealed vision.
You’ve likely heard the quip; “A pastor believes he’s going to change the world, but almost gets fired when he changes the bulletin.” Sadly, as I can attest, it’s true. There are few things as sacred to a declining and dying church as the bulletin. In our discussion about leading change we’ve walked through the left side of the equation and are now dealing squarely with the single element on the right: resistance to change. Here’s the truth, we love change until we don’t. Usually we welcome change for others, changes that we’ve been considering or desiring but we may put up a hard stop when change has our address on its label. The older we grow chronologically the more change resistant we are likely to be. I don’t like changing my passwords, I’m not necessarily a fan of iOS updates and I might fly into a (I need my readers to see) rage if you change the numbers on the value meals at my local fast food spot. I like life how I like it. Every change I encounter reminds me, I’m one more day closer to glory. Change is the Only Constant The world and our culture are constantly in flux. Improvements, regression, good ideas followed by bad, followed by corrective actions-it’s always been like this. You’re kidding yourself if you don't agree. Yet, there is one constant - God. He is, as the song goes, Age to Age the same. He never falters, fails, stumbles or slumbers. Yet, he is always on the move, working, raising up leaders, reaching new people, revealing himself (with consistency and fidelity) to new people throughout all generations. Everything changes, but God. Because this is true it demonstrates WHY we need Him, long for Him and why He is the Rock. Change Represents Loss When we encounter something, like it and benefit from it we develop a desire and expectation that it will provide us a trusted experience or outcome with each successive encounter. As I mentioned above-we like what we like and want it over and over. So changing that experience, removing that constant represents a loss to us. Last I checked, no one likes to lose. Change Creates Conflict It is not difficult to draw the line between loss and conflict. Stop by the preschool room and watch what happens when one child takes something away from a classmate. The range of emotions, expressions and perhaps even physical retribution are easily predictable. Same with every adult you know. Create a change in the one thing or a few things they really really like, enjoy, value, desire - you’ll get a response. Change Perspectives with Vision Most change we foist on people, organizations and churches is designed to improve the state of things, to enhance the culture, operations and enable us to meet shared objectives or mission. Leaders are always seeking to improve efficiency and effectiveness. If you’re a leader you intuitively see that, it’s the reason behind the change you are making, leading or suggesting. Others don’t see what you see - at least not in the beginning. Help them. Casting a clear vision ahead of changes is vital to overcoming the resistance to change. Vision is the why behind the what, it’s the foundational element that helps change the cultural chemistry of your church, organization or team. When people resist, go back to the vision. Is it clear, is it consistent with God’s call, are there initial first steps that can be taken toward its accomplishment? Questions for Reflection 1. Are you pro-change or change-resistant? Why? 2. When did you lead change that was accepted? Rejected? What was different or the same about each? 3. Can you cast a clear vision for the change you are proposing right now? I’ve talked with a lot of churches facing uncertain futures who are looking for quick fixes. They have a lot of ideas, so do the consultants who proffer their wisdom for a price. Rarely have I seen one or two adjustments or strategies turn around a church which has been decades in decline. IT’S NOT JUST ONE THING - IT’S MANY When you begin unpacking the history of a church long in decline you’ll likely discover a plethora of decisions, challenges, mistakes and even embedded and never confronted sins that have conspired to erode spiritual vitality. Mix in division and conflict, season with spiritual apathy and you’ll understand why the soup is spoiled so to speak. A church like this needs more than a demographic report and a hospitality strategy-they need spiritual renewal. CONTROLLERS GONNA CONTROL If I had five dollars for every dysfunctional church story I’ve heard, involving a church bully, gate-keeper, an interfering former pastor, a long term secretary and cranky old patriarch/matriarch wreaking havoc and controlling the church, I’d be a pretty wealthy person. Instead, I’m sad and honestly a bit indignant. There is a strong correlation between controllers creating chaos and conflict and the efforts to bring renewal to a church. SPIRITUAL RENEWAL FIRST - STRATEGY SECOND An honest reading of the letters to the seven churches in the book of Revelation shows us that some churches can look great on the outside (lots of churchy activity, correct doctrine, abhorrence for false teaching etc.) yet have hearts that are spiritually askew. Only a full repentant return to Christ will bring back spiritual vitality and blessing. THE SOLUTION THAT ISN’T - LET’S CALL A NEW PASTOR Hear this, every church needs a godly, called, qualified and committed Pastor. Especially the unhealthy congregations-they need a shepherd who will care and lead the flock as an under-shepherd of the Chief Shepherd - Jesus. But, many of these unhealthy churches call a Pastor and put the full weight of the church's success upon his back. Who’s gonna reach new people? The New Pastor is, because he’ll visit, preach amazing sermons and he’s younger than us-he alone will attract all our young neighbors. (ignore the fact that we don’t pay him enough to be full time or live in the same community where our church is located, and that we only really want him to reach certain people from the neighborhood) Who’s gonna help our church thrive? The New Pastor is, with his fresh ideas, innovation, and his new degree from one of our seminaries! (disregard the fact that we’ll resist every new idea, that we’ll make a mountain out of every molehill, we’ll guard our preferences to the death-even those which aren’t grounded in scripture) Who’s gonna help the church grow? The New Pastor is, with his boundless energy and great personality! (overlook that we’ll burden him with outdated committee structures, endless frustrating meetings and our refusal to change, that we'll subject every initiative he suggests to a whole church vote, we’ll question every suggestion, offer our criticism rather than our prayers, support and service) Who’s gonna grow this church? The New Pastor is! (disregard the fact that scripture is clear-Jesus is the one who builds his church-as we obey and submit to His leadership through his undershepherds.) ONE PASTOR CANNOT STOP DECADES LONG DECLINE - ALONE When I hear church members and leaders advocate for the “New Pastor” solution I think of the scene below, from the movie Superman. Accelerated decline, imminent danger, certain demise if nothing changes. That’s the reality, that’s what will happen if nothing changes, it's also what will happen when church members, who called and voted for the New Pastor, resist, attack, build coalitions against, gossip about and launch an offensive against the one they pinned their renewal hopes upon. YOUR PASTOR ISN’T SUPERMAN - HE CAN’T SAVE THE CHURCH - JESUS CAN Let me reiterate one more time - you need a godly, called and qualified Pastor. You (dear church member) also need a heart ready to repent, follow Jesus and your Pastor. A pastor can’t save a church because he can’t save you - he can point you to Jesus, he can preach the scriptures, he can appeal to you to lay down your life as an act of worship - but he can’t force you. Jesus saved you, he can save the church, but first you’ll have to grow sorrowful over your sin, repent, surrender and submit - and I know that isn’t easy, it’s just the only way. Therefore, since we also have such a large cloud of witnesses surrounding us, let us lay aside every hindrance and the sin that so easily ensnares us. Let us run with endurance the race that lies before us, keeping our eyes on Jesus, the pioneer and perfecter of our faith. For the joy that lay before him, he endured the cross, despising the shame, and sat down at the right hand of the throne of God.
Hebrews 12:1-3 There are many Pastors who are feeling the weight of of ministry and are likely beyond exhausted, physically, mentally, spiritually and emotionally. In the past month I’ve heard my pastor friends say these things: “I’m ready to quit.” “I don’t know how much longer I can keep going.” “If one more family leaves over ____________ I’m not sure our church will be able to survive financially.” “I’m not going to abandon the church now, but when this season is over, I’m planning on resigning.” “I’m depressed, discouraged and feel like a failure.” When I pastored I said similar things. When I led in difficult seasons I thought about them, regularly. We should acknowledge that some of our brothers and the churches they pastor are growing and thriving, we can rejoice and be thankful for that-we can also confess that many are not, in fact they may be the majority. Brother Pastor, let me encourage you to keep running and endure. The writer of Hebrews offers us a great exhortation to keep going, even when things are difficult. Consider the Example of Others History is replete with the stories of missionaries and pastors who labored faithfully over years, often at great costs and with great hardships, while not seeing great numbers of conversions. Consider the life of Adoniram Judson, who after four decades of ministry in Burma, could count, at best, twenty-five converts to Christ. In that same timeframe he buried two wives, six children, and eleven co-workers. By God’s grace, the gospel took hold and the number of converts tracing their faith to his work now number in the millions. Lay Aside Hindrances What are the things that hinder your joy, undermine your devotion and slow your ministry? Could it be an expectation or desire to be successful by a certain standard which now has you second guessing your call or feeling frustrated? Are you facing real emotional challenges that would benefit from counseling, medical examination or medication? Are you watching and listening to other Pastors and comparing yourself to them? Are you following the advice of consultants who peddle quick solutions for churches in crisis who have never led a church during a season like this? Do the work of prayerful reflection and set aside whatever things the Lord reveals are hindering your race. Mortify Sin Sustained discouragement in the life of a Christian, especially a Pastor can become an incubator for sin. Our desires can slowly over time skew toward self-we want to feel different, be happy, feel successful. Our desire to feel good, experience success, and enjoy personal fulfillment can become an obsessive quest. We each have sins that are prone to ensnare our hearts, minds and hands. Know the specific sins that could take you out and ask the Lord to deaden you to them. Run Your Race God calls each of us to the same ministry of proclaiming the gospel and making disciples who make disciples. But his call to each of us is unique to a certain context. I served in an affluent, highly educated, extremely progressive and gospel resistant city. You may serve in a sparsely populated conservative rural county. We each have a race that lies before us-one that is very different. I’m called to faithfully run mine and you yours. I may think your race looks easier and want to abandon mine-but I must finish the race God has laid before me. Keep Looking at Jesus I ran long distance on the track team when I was much younger, I did not run well at all. I like to say now that the only time I run is when I’m scared or in danger-which means I don’t run much! In my track days I struggled to run effectively because I was focused not on the finish line but my pain. Pastor, what are you focusing on as you run the race God has put before you? My experience reminds me that when I focus on the pain of my race and not on Jesus, who is the author and perfecter of my faith, who successfully ran his race to the cross I will struggle and want to quit running. The race is not over brother Pastor, let’s keep running and keep our eyes fixed on Jesus. IT BEGINS (AND CONTINUES) WITH SOMEONE
In any group of people, be it a workplace, school, office or church there are some who initiate action or instigate change. It can come in the form of a suggestion; "Hey why don't we..." or "I wonder if we ______" and let's add, "I think we should......." These are the catalytic leaders among us, they see an opportunity, an inefficiency or injustice and rise to action, call for something different. They are movers and sometimes they shake things up. We need them, some who prefer status quo, resist their gift and work. PROGRESS REQUIRES LEADERS & FOLLOWERS It's not uncommon to get confused about leadership. In the late 90s and early to mid 2000s a lot of church conferences claimed that everyone is a Leader. Myriads of resources were created and foisted on Pastors and Churches-a lot were good, some were not. In reality, not everyone functions in the lead position. If we were all leading, no one would be following, and nothing would be accomplished. Let's tweak the now two decades leadership assertion to this-Leaders lead, others follow, those that follow lead out in the accomplishment of the mission. DIRECTIONAL LEADERS SET THE COURSE, DOING LEADERS MAKE IT HAPPEN A simple leadership principle-to go somewhere you have to actually go somewhere. Someone (the leader) has to determine direction-be it through declaration, relational influence or collaboration-a person has to begin the process of saying let's go here, let's do this. At that point, those around, who are part of the community have a decision to make-do we agree? Are we going to put in the effort to go there, to accomplish, to achieve the movement toward that direction? If yes, they engage in "doing" leadership. DIRECTIONAL LEADERSHIP MUST BE STEWARDED Our natural tendency is to start something and not fully finish it or see it through to completion. The task of the leader is to see it through all the way, even in the face of opposition, delay, challenge and lack of resource. Leadership: A called, qualified and committed leader navigates dangers, threats, challenges to the accomplishment of the vision-keeping the congregation united and focused and moving forward. In Nehemiah 2, we see a great example of stewarding the vision God is giving and shaping
GUARD AND GUIDE DIRECTIONAL LEADERSHIP I've read a leadership guru who writes that we should be "mean" about the vision. I get what he's trying to say, but I'd want to be careful to caution and encourage leaders "mean" doesn't convey you have to run roughshod over people to accomplish the task-don't be a jerk, tossing people disagree off the "bus." Simply communicate the vision, protect and guard it, encourage its adoption and implementation. Do this in every way possible, circle back to it regularly. Don't take time to debate critics who want to make you stop-just keep going. QUESTIONS FOR REFLECTION 1. Are you a Directional or Doing Leader? What are some supporting examples that informed your response? 2. Are you stewarding your leadership assignment well? 3. Is the vision under attack? How are you responding? |
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